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| Find the
love you have always desired - Part 1
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excerpts from the book
‘Falling In Love Over The
Internet’
by Ernie Rohrbacher MASC (NLP)
How we fall in love
and / or attract the person we want
In this book, I shall mainly talk about falling in love, even though the exact same principles apply to attracting the person we want.
This
book is not about how to make relationships work,
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even though falling in love and having a long term relationship go hand in hand, as much of my studies have proven, as we shall later see. The purpose of this book is to primarily share how people fall in love over the Internet and once this is firmly understood, it can also be used to attract any one we want.
Some people …. both connected, and not connected to the Internet do not believe or understand that to fall in love with someone via a computer screen is possible. This book will show that it is possible, easily, partly through my own experience as well as knowing that of other peoples, and seeing the same principles involved, and why it is much easier to fall in love with someone over the Internet than the conventional trial and error method of dating. If people in the days of pen pals could fall in love with each other, where weeks between mail used to be common, it should come as no surprise that this very same situation can occur over the Internet …. especially since the delay in communication isn't present. Most communication over the Internet is in present time, and not weeks old.
It was around March of 1998 that I decided to connect up to the Internet. It was mainly a decision based upon wanting to look up topics of interest to me, using web browsers, and as such, I had little initial interest of getting onto the chat channels. After about a month, my curiosity got the better of me and went onto some chat channels, not expecting or thinking that this would change my life's direction forever. It was on one of these channels that I met, and soon after, fell in love with Deb, and had a very intense and intimate love relationship, that lasted for about 15 months. This relationship was thankfully the catalyst for my divorce, and helped end a dying relationship to the point that Linda ( my
ex-wife ) and I, to mutually decide to let go of our relationship, and go on our own separate ways.
Because of my past love relationship with Deb, I wish this book to be a warning of what to look out for. Both of us had gone through a great deal together, and my interest and willingness to be a friend is different from before, because our friendship was one sided, and therefore, now our relationship has since stopped.
And it is because of my recent Engagement, with a lovely lady named Alla, who lives in the Ukraine, that I wish this book to be an example, and of what is possible for the future, if we have faith and trust, and do what is best for us and the other person. I met Alla in August 1999 through a dating agency, and we began to exchange letters to each other via e-mail, and soon after, I began to ring her on the telephone.
This book has been divided into 3 main sections. Section 1 deals with the main emotion that this book is based on …. Love, and the vehicle used, that allows us to feel it, in this case, the Internet. Section 2 talks about Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and the different methods that occur for us to fall in love. Section 3 shows us the how and where to begin and what to do from there, with the sharing of some things between Alla and myself in our early and humble beginning stages of getting to know each other.
It is with greatest pleasure that the time has come for human kind to learn more about themselves and to be able to share this with others, so that they may make the necessary decisions based on their experience in order to create more peace and love on the planet. If there is even one small sentence in this book that makes sense to you, and by its use, empowers your life, then I will feel satisfied that the purpose of writing this book has been accomplished.
Thanking you in advance for taking the time, and may you find many interesting things to think about, and may you find the Love you always desired.
With Love
Ernie Rohrbacher MASC (NLP)
Falling In Love Over The
Internet
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to read Part 2
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